Thin line between infatuation and love……….
I have a hairline fracture…fell hard for this guy Oh its just infatuation says everyone whom I tell this about.
But I just refuse to accept that crap. How can it be infatuation when I feel so strongly? I just can’t stop thinking about the person. That’s surely love.
The dictionary describes infatuation as: - Usually, one is inspired with an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone.
The question is how long one has to wait till one knows if its infatuation or love that has shown itself in the showcase of your mind. People fall in love get married have children and then get divorced too...so was it love or infatuation that took this path of action.
If infatuation can last so long then love must be something that lasts for just a moment.
Like love at first sight and then with the second blink of the eye your love has melted...Ha-ha!
I would like to do my home work on Love now:- I love my work…that’s just till I am dead tired and need to take a break…aha..So that means I have been infatuated with my work for some time...Now I understand.
Then comes the argument that love is that lasts long…like after the break you do start you work again and say that you love it. Is it the same with people? Can one take breaks and then be back?
I am tired of all these back and forth thoughts…
Further on the dictionary says that infatuation is something that one desires but generally cannot get…so now it’s time to wait and see when I get this guy…and think if I lose him…then I have to wait again…this argument now has started sounding stupid.
The fact is that I have fallen and my heart is in the cast…now when the cast is broken and spell casted lets see!
Till then in love..Spicychutney
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
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Infatuation is often labelled as love at first sight by many. It can also be called as beginning stage of love.
ReplyDeleteOver a period of time, I may fall in love with the man I am infatuated to.
I see him, he looks good / attractive - I won't call it love.
I get to know that person, I wish to have a future with him despite his negative traits. I'd say that is love.
*these are just my views*
About the closing lines of the post:
My best wishes as you wait and watch.
GBU
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